Story 9: Five Great Places To Have Sex

The most memorable sexual experiences are shaped by where and when they occur. Sometimes this is brought on by a little fear of being caught or the actual experience of having an entirely new experience all together – or both.

There are some really great places to have sex that can induce excitement and whispers around the water cooler about you.

1. The Stairway: The fear of being walked in on and the raw sexual passion of two people engaging in sex here can cause anyone to remember this moment.
2. A Pool/Jacuzzi: Yes, a little cliché and a little difficult because of the water temperature, but having sex in a pool or Jacuzzi is always a winner with the ladies. Something about the water that overwhelms the senses making this a place that is always exciting to share with someone.
3. Your In-law’s House: Having sex at a family member’s home while visiting is pretty exciting stuff and is one that should not be overlooked in excitement!
4. Camping: There is nothing quite like having sex under a billion stars near a campfire. A great way to cap off a great day in nature, but beware of bears, mosquitoes, and the nosey forest rangers.
5. The Stove: Preferably done while all the burners are off and cooled. Having sex on top of the stop can really be an exciting little adventure for you to remember.
6. The Garage: Okay, so you were looking for your tools, but your wife happens to walk in unaware that you have been checking her out all day. Clear off some old paint brushes and show her the hammer in your garage.
7. On Top of a Parked Car: (Parked being the keyword): Being out in the open and having sex on top of car could be the most exciting things out there. For many men, this could almost be considered a threesome.
8. Kitchen Table: Ah, this is another staple location for wild sex, but what a staple it is! Having dinner with the in-laws is never quite the same after an erotic love making session here.
9. The Beach: If you live in Nebraska, perhaps there’s a river bank around. Making love on a beach is simply one of the best experiences a human being can have. It must be done at least once in a lifetime.

Pool Table: My personal favorite I have saved for last. If you haven’t done this, before, you don’t know what you’re missing. This is simply a fun and sexy place to have sex.

Story 8: 5 Ways To Last Longer In Bed

Do you struggle with premature ejaculation? Okay, maybe you are not ready to admit that you may have a PE problem - and that’s okay. But do you at least wish you could last a little longer in bed?

Sure you do! All men do.

Whether it’s to satisfy our ladies a bit more, or have a little more fun for longer periods of time, we all wish we could last a little longer!

Here’s the good news, it’s very possible to do so!  Here are six simple ways for you to last longer in bed:

1. Masturbate. Yes, masturbating is the best thing for you to do in order to last longer in bed with your partner. Masturbating allows you to practice holding the sensation of wanting to orgasm. Just think of it as training. Masturbation also gives you a consistent sense of release, so you’re not so hard up to have an orgasm right away, when you’re actually having sex.
2. Don’t wear underwear: Now, for various reasons this might not be possible all the time – but at least twice a week, go commando. Sounds funny, huh? Well most research indicates that men who are circumcised or don’t wear underwear last longer in bed. The simple reason: The nerve endings of the penis are used to the stimulation and develop more “resistance” to that stimulation.
3. Stop thinking about the orgasm. When you are having sex, stop thinking about the orgasm altogether. It’s not all about the end goal here that matters. Rather, it’s about your journey getting there. With your mind and body off the orgasm, you can relax a bit and enjoy yourself – longer!
4. Be creative. Moving from the bed to the sofa to the stairway may give your penis’ nerve endings a little break from being overly stimulated, while allowing for more fun and creative ways to make love too.
5. Give your penis a break – don’t thrust so fast and so hard. Enjoy what you are doing and you will find that you will last a little longer in bed!

Make her orgasm first. This means extending foreplay a little bit and employing some oral sex techniques. During sex, break up the positions and start engaging in oral sex – allowing her to orgasm first is a sign of a generous and satisfying lover. Plus it takes the pressure off both you to perform

Story 7: Easy Steps To Have More Sex

So you’re sitting at home, wondering why you’re not enjoying more sex in your life, right? Join the club. Most men feel this way at some point in their lives.

Not long ago, I too, found myself in this very large group of men, wondering why and how my love life went cold.

I was after all, not a bad looking guy, educated, had a decent job, and was, for the most part, funny. Still, I couldn’t get laid for the life of me. Then things changed – I started having great sex regularly. What changed? Well, it took some time and a little of trial and error but I figured things out.

I bet you’re wondering how I turned this all around? Well, if I could package my wisdom in a bottle and sell it online, you better believe I would.

Here are a few important points that led to the change in my own life and could help you with your sex life too!

1. Smile: The more you smile the better or positive energy you project outwardly. And positive energy is not only infectious, it’s attractive. The more you smile - the more attention you will get. Now a word of caution, don’t fake or give disingenuous smiles – it’s just not work. Authentic smiles are the best and most effective – and generate the best results.
2. Be funny. So you don’t have a funny gene in your body, that’s okay. You can find the dry humor in things a lot easier than most of us – if you allow yourself to do so. The truth is that if you make a woman laugh, you can pretty much laugh her panties right off her. Believe me, it’s true.
3. Get a haircut and trim your nose hairs: Sounds pretty superficial, but you would be surprised what a little trip to the barber will do for a man. It means you’re taking care of yourself and that goes a long way in a woman’s book.
4. Get new bed sheets and fluffy comforter. Getting new bed sheets and getting your dog from shedding his hair all over the place can make all the difference. Make your bed and your entire bedroom for that matter, a love cave. You want your woman to want to go in it – not feel like she has to take a shower after the experience.
5. Be an Expert. I don’t care if you’re expert at Star Wars trivia. Be an expert on something – anything - worms, hummingbirds, bikes, baseball cards – it doesn’t matter what it is! Women love status and experts have status. It doesn’t matter with whom – you can be king of the nerds, king of the bug experts, king of the chair makers – it doesn’t matter. Being an expert can deliver many dividends because expertise, leadership, and status all play an important role in a woman’s attraction towards you!
6. Be Confident: Women love confidence. Yes, they all love confidence and not the macho type of confidence that peels off in a big truck and yells out the window and ladies on the street. I’m talking about the quiet confidence that comes with wisdom and internal sense of security.
7. Be the guy in the band. Okay, so you’re not so popular. That’s okay, you don’t have to be. But just so you know, women do love to be with the guy in the band. It’s a tribal status thing. Women, as do most of us, love to be a part of something that is exclusive. Create your own exclusive party or band. It doesn’t have to be with music, it can be with art, or whatever it is that you love to do!

Follow these basic points and your magnetic pull will grow and develop. Before you know it, you will find yourself going out and having more sex than you can handle!

Story 6: Make Her Explode By Building Up Sexual Anticipation

When a woman has an orgasm, it may feel like a powerful raging river of lust, love, and intimacy, all rolled up in one - rushing throughout her entire body.

But where does that raging orgasmic river start from?

The source of every woman’s orgasm is always found in her mind – always. In fact, most women who find it difficult to have an orgasm usually have some difficulty getting over this first major mental hurdle.

Some women have a hard time giving themselves permission to have an orgasm in the first place. After all, there are still a lot of hang ups in today’s society on a woman’s pressure to be virginal and sexy, motherly and horny - all at the same time! Research shows that these mixed feelings and expectations have very real and detrimental influence on a woman’s sexual psyche. 

The good news is that we actually know where an orgasm starts. The bad news is, that most men don’t know.

Yet, if we pay careful attention, we can take simple steps to help her unlock the passion within her!

The first thing you must do is disarm her. Women, by nature, are always on guard or suspicious of men and their motives. Now, as a man, you don’t have to necessarily hide the fact that you want to have sex, it just doesn’t need to take center stage every single moment.

Rather, if you simply make take the emphasis off sex, you will instantly intrigue her interests, because 99% of heterosexual men she has met over the course of her life have and continue to want to get into her pants first.

So, how do you disarm her? Well, the first thing to do is stop looking at her tits. Next, be genuine in sharing your passions and you interests with her. If she knows that there is an authentic man behind that small erection, then she is most likely to lower her defenses.

Second, there are simple ways to flirt with her that is not overly flirtatious. Let her know that you find her attractive - without drooling on her. Here are two examples: Let’s say, she is showing you her pictures on Facebook. Let her know that she is “photogenic.” Say something like, “Everyone looks so happy in this picture, and you look pretty amazing in that dress too!” or “This is a great photo of you and your mom – you have such a great smile!”

Now, once you disarm her and she will begin to allow you to come close to her – physically. Provide a little anticipation with teasing. A woman likes a man that she can’t really have. That’s why many women love married men – they’re safe and they can’t have them – so consequently they are more desirable and valuable.

Set up a date for you guys to go out and then steadily build on the anticipation of the meeting. The anticipation creates tension, which will be released during orgasm.

If her guard is down with you, she has basically given you the keys to her sexuality and is waiting for you to do what you do best – satisfy her deepest desires. But you can’t just open the door to her house and run upstairs to her bed. She'll snatch those key right back from you in a second! Rather, you need to explore her environment, appreciate the world she has created and is sharing with you.

Stroke her sense of being a woman - her hair, her laugh, her smell – do without too much sexual tension – that will soon come.

Call her during the week, share an interesting personal story, but before you tell her the ending – the climax - cut her off, and tell her that you got to run into a meeting and that you will finish up where you left off  when you see her. Give her something to think about and that will make her want to seeing you again soon.

If you practice building anticipation, you will no doubt cause her to want you more as the hours and days pass - until you finally see each other. Remember the orgasmic rushing river you want her to have with you, always starts from a little spring deep within her mind. Impact her mind, and you will impact her orgasms!

Story 5: Six Secrets of Her Sexual Desire

You’ve heard of the old saying, “what goes up… must come down,” right? Well, with sexual desire, it’s no different.

The fact is that you will have “ebb and flows” to your level of sexual desire, and so will your lover. The trick is to be able to extend the times “you are up,” and limit the times you are “down.”

Here are five secrets of doing just that:

1. Do the Dishes: Most researchers suggest that when women feel as though the chores are done – this allows their mind “the space” to think about sex. It also gives them a sense of “well-being” – as if things are being taken care of. And women love being taken care of. Wash the dishes, take out the trash, and clean the toilet. Do these mundane chores without her asking and you just carried a part of load off your lady’s back.
2. Date Her: Establish a time and place to go on a date and work your way up to that date throughout the week. We know, you’re both busy, you both got responsibilities and obligations, and most likely if you’re like the rest of Americans, you are very close to burning-out. So whether you have been married for ten years or dating for eight months, set up that old-fashioned time and place and prepare for it. For example, let’s say you set up a date for this Saturday evening. Start texting her on Tuesday and tell her how beautiful she is and that you can’t wait for your time together. Leave her notes – in the bathroom or on her desk telling her that you’re excited to make love to her Saturday night. The sense of anticipation is completely seductive and will generate many rewards for you.
3. Exercise together: You could play tennis, go swimming, jogging, or play volleyball. All the research suggests that active women have greater sexual function and experience greater sexual pleasure than women who don’t exercise. Make it a weekly date – and watch her temperature rise in bed!
4. Be Touchy-Feely. Whether you live in tiny studio apartment together or a five bedroom ranch house, be close to her – and touch her while you are passing each other. If she is already cares for you, non-sexual touching is critical during the day and increases further sentiments of closeness and intimacy. Touching and stroking in a non-sexual way – even if slightly – heightens the pleasure when sex actually does occur.
5. Tell her she is beautiful – every day. When she wakes up, when she is putting her make up on, when she is feeding the kids, doing the laundry, or reading on the sofa. Tell her she is beautiful and that you find her very sexy. Women have lots of issues with their body. Much research finds that body dissatisfaction, decreases a woman’s sex life. A simple word, a gesture, a touch, a note, and telling her that she is beautiful, can really turn her sexuality around in no time!

Sexual desire, especially great sexual desire, always begins beyond the bed sheets. If you want to turn up the heat in bed, then you will have to do some relatively simple, yet essential, things outside the bedroom. Follow these points consistently and no doubt, you will begin turning up the fire!